Thursday, February 25, 2010
For about a week or so now, I have been limiting their morning nap. Usually I don't have to wake them up but every once in a while I do. Also, I moved them into the same room for naps as we will be decorating the spare room for Tater Tot. So, I'm not sure if the difficulties I'm facing are because of the nap transition we're doing (gradual as it is) or because they are napping together. As I write this, I can hear Collette gabbing away. It's 2:20 and they went down around 1:10. A few weeks ago, they were napping for almost 2 hours in the afternoon so I feel like things have gone awry.
One side of me thinks that perhaps they are ready to less gradually take away that morning nap and I should be a bit more aggressive. Maybe I'm still letting them sleep too much and it's affecting their afternoon nap. The other side thinks its just a result of Collette napping in a new place, she will get used it, and I should stay the slow and steady course.
My goal is to be on one nap by the end of March, but the sooner the better, IMO. So, wise ones - thoughts?
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
When I tell people about the upcoming trip, they immediately try to assuage my guilt, saying things like, "Oh, it will be so hard to leave them but you'll have such a good time" or "Don't feel guilty - you deserve it!" Then I try not to make a rude face because all I can think is, "are you on crack?" I never have the chance to miss my children. If anything, I get an overdose! I know they are my children and I love more than words can say, but time apart is a good thing. And I'm being completely honest when I say every last little fiber of me feels that way. There is no little voice making me feel bad for going away. No pangs of guilt. No 1%.
I'm a bit surprised at the reactions I got. Am I the only mom who feels this way? Surely there are other people who don't feel guilty leaving their kids 4 nights (or more, if you're lucky) in 15 months. I understand mommy guilt, especially when you don't spend as much time with your kids as you'd like. I don't think anyone should have to feel guilty for the choices they make when their family's best interest is at heart, but I understand it happens anyway. In this case though, I don't understand why someone would feel guilty. Then again, I'm not winning any awards for sentimentality, so...
Would you feel guilty? Or would you just blow a kiss and be on your merry way?
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Friday, February 19, 2010
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Also, I have been feeling this little nugget move around - very cool! Billy is jealous because he can't feel it through my stomach but hey, us girls need to have some perks if we're in charge of actually growing and housing the new human.
Saturday we find out if it's a boy or a girl - any guesses??
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Next up was the Girlfriend's Guide to Toddlers. Most of her advice was OK but all stuff you've alread heard - pretty much like, "Omigod, having kids is so hard and embarassing and gross but we love them so much!" Not really expert-y, IMO. I like advice that has a real point, not just something I could hear from anyone at the park. But still, there is lots of value in this kind of advice if you don't have moms at the park to chat with. So, I read on.
Things were going OK until she told me never to take my toddlers to a restaurant. Really? That's the worst advice I've ever heard - especially coming from another mother! I know lots of people feel that little kids should not be in restaurants but here's how I see it: There are fancy restaurants that are pretty much for adults only. It's not a rule but that's the atmosphere. In those cases, I get it. You won't see me and my twins at Mistral any time soon. But regular, family restaurants? I don't see why not. If you are prepared - and you should be, for your own sake, your kids' sake and the other guests - then eating out with kids is not a problem. My kids actually behave better in restaurants than they do at home. So maybe her advice should be learn how to have a successful outing with your kids instead of just locking them up inside until they're 5.
Also, if obnoxiousness is qualification for never going to restaurants, maybe teenagers should be banned, too. :)
What do you all think about kids in restaurants? Am I the crazy one?
Monday, February 15, 2010
Sebastian got the bug by that afternoon - same crib scene. His didn't seem to be as bad, thankfully. Collette had a repeat that night, about a half hour after bedtime. Poor kidlets.
On Saturday, I got it and so did Auntie Kim. My stomach pains and lightheadedness were so bad that I called my OB and she had me go to the hospital. They put me on an IV drip and gave me some Zofran and Reglan, thank the sweet Lord. I spent nearly 6 hours there but it was worth it. Since then, I've been on a strict diet of Gatorade, apple juice and toast. But now, everyone is feeling better - we even went to the park! Here are some shots, not at the park though - naturally, I forgot my camera :)
Lots more updates to come - sorry I've been AWOL.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Monday, February 1, 2010
To catch you all up, on Tuesday evening, Collette projectile vomited in the playroom and could not keep anything down for the rest of the night - not even a couple sips of water. I had to skip my twin's club meeting to help Billy hold down the fort - we aren't used to baby sickness around here, thankfully. Luckily, she was much better the next morning, just tired.
Fast forward to Thursday night/Friday morning. I woke from a dead sleep to follow in Collette's footsteps. This went on until Friday night. I could not eat or drink anything (seriously, not more than tiny sips of water) for at least 24 hours. Billy had to leave work early to come home and rescue me. Friday evening, Sebastian joined in the fun. Good times.
I was suuposed to visit my best friend in Portland, ME on saturday and stay over - my first time ever going away with kids or husband since the twins were born. But on Saturday morning, all I could eat were saltines and Sebastian was still sick. So I stayed and recuperated and helped as much as I could. Needless to say, blogging has not been high on my list of priorities as of late.
Also, to update my last post about our nap transition, we have abandoned ship. Because or playmates abandoned ship first. The twins are still doing fine with 2 naps so there is no harm in keeping this going for a few more weeks, at least. The Children's Museum will just have to wait :)